Dr. Seuss once said, “Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory”. I never realized how important that quote was until my son Connor passed away over 7 years ago. Keeping memories alive vividly in your heart and mind are a constant reminder that life is precious and should never be taken for granted.
Connor left a legacy not only one of service but one of deep rooted faith. He tried to live his life by God’s strength who gave him everything that he needed. He asked himself quite often what moments he would value and treasure so that his legacy could follow him.
Kind heart, fierce mind and brave spirit…that is what describes Connor best. He grew up playing a multitude of sports but he always wanted to give back and pay it forward to others and to his community and participated in many leadership activities. Connor was an Eagle Scout, an EMT and a lifeguard and received an Associate's degree in Homeland Security. However, from a very early age, he always wanted to serve and protect others and our country and was well underway of achieving his dream of a career in law enforcement when he passed away unexpectedly at age 23.
When he passed away, his life of service to the community was very apparent. However, Connor’s sincerest desire was always to be an organ and tissue donor. His generous and everlasting gifts of his two corneas and tissues enriched the lives of 28 people. I know, deep down in my heart, that the individuals who received them are grateful and thankful as Connor’s legacy lives on through them.
I am so very proud of Connor’s accomplishments as he touched so many lives in his passing. I know that he made an impact and inspired others through his gifts. Value the moments and make memories. Appreciate every facet life has to offer you. Be thankful and grateful and always be a good servant. Never underestimate the power of one act of kindness. It does make a transformational difference in the lives of others and Connor was a true testament of that.
If Connor were here today he would say, “A meaningful life is not being rich, popular, being highly educated or being perfect. It is about being real, being humble, being strong and being able to share ourselves and touch the lives of others. It is only then that we could have a full and happy and content life. Life is short. Time is fast. No rewind. Enjoy every moment.”
I miss and love you my dear son with all of my heart, mind and soul. You are my superhero and a hero to many.
